The 3 Powerful Steps to Deal with Toxic People … the Spiritual Way!

The 3 Powerful Steps to Deal with Toxic People … the Spiritual Way!

The 3 Powerful Steps to Deal with Toxic People … the Spiritual Way! 1920 1080 Christina Lopes

Learn what toxic people are from a spiritual perspective, the crucial lesson they’re teaching you, and the simple 3 step process to help you deal with toxic people quickly.

Could you be dealing with a toxic person?

So many of us struggle with toxic people and have no idea how to deal with these relationships, or set sufficient boundaries.

These people seem to have the ability to not only ruin your day but also create challenges on a regular basis.

So, what is a toxic person?

The mainstream definition of a toxic person is this:

‘Someone whose behavior negatively impacts your life.’

They not only add heaviness to your life but also cause unnecessary drama.

The word heaviness is used because that can be how you can feel when you interact with them (that on edge anxiety that too many of us recognize).

But how do we deal with these people? 

In this week’s video, I’ll be discussing exactly how you can tackle these relationships, as well as:

💥 What a toxic person is from a spiritual and energy perspective.

💥 Can toxic people change?

💥 One crucial lesson you must learn when dealing with toxic people

💥 Simple 3-step process to help you quickly deal with toxic people when they show up in your life.

Now it’s over to you! Once you watch the video, let me know in the comments below:

Do you struggle with toxic people in your life?

If you enjoyed this post, please share it on social media with your friends!

P.S. don’t forget to download the free workbook that supplements this blog and the video!

With deep love and gratitude;

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I’m a life coach, healer, spiritual teacher, and former clinician. My life’s work is to help accelerate your spiritual awakening so you can heal your past, overcome any challenge, and live with joy and purpose. If you need to deep dive beyond my weekly video content, I recommend you check out my premium coaching program, Heart Alchemy.

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  • Andrea Latchford June 1, 2021 at 6:07 pm

    Thank you so much!
    For all these video’s you so kindly send me
    I am grateful .
    Much Love

  • Hi Christina,
    Thank you so much for this video. I really struggle with my daughter, so I would not want to walk away especially as there are four grandchildren involved. I feel that I have tried every effort to help and support her which has been really hard at times as each year that goes by the more issues arise, very draining it is.
    I have been practicing empowerment for the last year and I will say she just becomes more toxic and insulting towards me, challenging me to the max. I love them all dearly and try my very best to stay strong and positive in front of my grandchildren as they do need my presence in their life, but it is draining I must admit. If you have any other advice/tips I could try I will be extremely grateful
    Much appreciated

    • Amanda – Team Christina June 3, 2021 at 9:03 pm

      Hi Leah! Thank you for telling us a bit about your journey. Christina does read each of her messages but is unable to respond with individual guidance here in the comments. We encourage you to take advantage of all the Free Resources Christina offers! However, the best way to work with her directly is through her annual Heart Alchemy course!

  • Denise Marie Jefferys June 1, 2021 at 6:40 pm

    Beautifully said, Christina. You addressed my question almost immediately by saying that the label “toxic” doesn’t discount the fact that they are beautiful souls underneath. I have never heard such a clear or helpful definition of what it means to be a toxic person, so your 5 points were eye opening for me in that it confirmed that my mother and older sister were indeed controlling, overpowering, master manipulators and (sorry) drama queens. I married a man who was controlling in a quiet, completely unconscious way. Very difficult to detect the toxicity in someone who seems kind to everyone else. I walked away from my marriage in order to protect myself and experienced my spiritual emergency about a year later. Since then (3 years ago), I have mended relationships with everyone, most recently my sister, who had always scared the living daylights out of me. By treating these ‘toxic’ people with the same love, kindness and compassion I show my children, the people who had caused so much pain no longer hurt me.

    So – yes! Stepping into the power of love and light works! Setting boundaries no longer seems necessary, but I still pull that tool out of the kit occasionally.

    I would still like to hear Christina’s view on how to handle a Twin Flame who is so trapped in darkness that his behaviours are frightening. Other people have called him a bully. He has resorted to physical violence in the past. He says horrible things about his mother and women in general. He checks every single point in Christina’s definition of a toxic personality. During the darkness of my ‘purge’ I seriously wondered if he was Satan personified. It seemed an awful lot for the universe to expect a newly awakened soul to have to deal with this level of evil. And yet beneath this dark ego, there is a wounded inner child who is reaching out for help. I can see his soul and it breaks my heart that he is suffering with so much pain. There is a lot to this story that I have not shared. We were in an affair for five years, powerless to stay away from each other. I had already ended my marriage, but he was still married. The dishonesty, and his irrational/heavy behaviours, eventually caused me to become physically ill. (Vertigo, kidney infection, stomach problems, viruses, mono, etc.) The universe was telling me that he was my soul mate, and at the same time, practically hitting me over the head with the message to get the hell out. I did end the relationship, and all my health problems cleared up almost immediately. Despite the call of the Twin Flame, I will not renew the relationship until he is happily independent and more spiritually mature.

    My concern is that he will harm himself. Do toxic people say this as a way to control or manipulate others?

    He has been my greatest teacher. He was responsible for my breakdown which led to my transformation, but I found that his dark energy was (at that time) too strong for me. I sense that he will come back to me at some point in the future, (possibly many years) and that I will need to have my A-game ready.

    Thank you again for your videos. I feel more grounded in loving energy every time I learn something new from you.


    • Amanda – Team Christina June 3, 2021 at 9:03 pm

      Hi Denise! Thank you for telling us a bit about your journey. Christina does read each of her messages but is unable to respond with individual guidance here in the comments. We encourage you to take advantage of all the Free Resources Christina offers! However, the best way to work with her directly is through her annual Heart Alchemy course!

  • Hi Christina this vidio is just what I needed thank you.
    I’m living with my mum at the moment and I really find it hard because she is toxic along with my sister and brother but my brother isn’t a problem now after I had a go at him a few weeks ago I won’t be seeing him again I just got my mum to deal with. Thanks

  • Thank you, Christina. I had/have toxic people in my life all the times it seems. As I was watching the video my 3d and 4th chakras hurt so much because I was really hurt by those people. I got into an abusive narcissist relationship and almost lost my life as he tried to kill me when he lost all that control. You are helping me so much. I’m so happy I found you. Thank you!

  • Thank you so much Christina and team 💞

  • Hi Christina: Very much enjoyed this video. I cannot see the links to other videos which you mentioned in this video and also the link to the free workbook. Can you please look into this matter? This is happening with all your videos.

    • Amanda – Team Christina June 3, 2021 at 8:48 pm

      Hi Bipasha! The links discussed are in the description of the Youtube video! You can click on it and see them all each week.

  • Thank you this really is so true ! I befriended a couple at our camp ground ! She acted so nice and sweet! I thought wow I finally found a friend to hang with ! Then she made plans with us all the time! She started messaging my husband and flirting really hard with him ! I was going thru so very stressful time with family and bills ! She kept saying you and your husband are so cute together and that they lost a lot of friend because wives were threatened by her beauty! Red flag one! Then I heard her talk about one of there other friends wife red flag 🚩 2 then she was always trying to get us to change our plans when I told her we had other plans she would go behind my back and flirt with my husband to get him to change our plans him thinking I was ok with it! We started fighting a lot he just thought she was the nicest thing! Long story short we stopped hanging around them but then she started hanging with my brother who is at the same camp ground ! And my brother thinks I’m over reacting she lives right across the road from him ! She is so manipulative he doesn’t see it because she is so nice! She would drag him off ever chance she got! My brothers wife and her became best friends ! I don’t want me or my husband to be anywhere around her at all! I love the camp ground but hate that she’s there! But she is always around my brother and it breaks my heart! He just keeps telling me to get over it and I can’t! ! I really believe she is evil! Me and my husband are working on our marriage but this was really hard how she manipulated him!

    • Amanda – Team Christina October 29, 2021 at 12:07 am

      Wow! What a tough situation! Happy this video resonated for you and wishing the best for you and your husband! ♥


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