Master How to BE YOURSELF in a Fake World!

Master How to BE YOURSELF in a Fake World!

Master How to BE YOURSELF in a Fake World! 1920 1080 Christina Lopes

Learn what it actually means to be yourself, why it’s crucial for you to be authentic in these new energies, and how to be yourself in 4 easy steps.

As human beings, we have become experts at wearing masks and I’m not referring to personal protective equipment. I’m talking about embracing a façade and hiding who we really are in order to appease and satisfy others. 

For nearly as long as we’ve been alive, we’ve been shifting our identities as easily as shifting gears in a car. But why? 

The shame affiliated with standing in our truths and shining our whole authentic selves boldly for the entire world to see, for one. It’s a known fact that we’re all special, unique, and one-of-a-kind. We’ve been told that since birth.

But since birth, we’ve felt the need to fit in, to please others, and to belong to something larger than ourselves. But to truly feel like we belong to a larger group, we often have to conform and change parts of ourselves that stand out because we aren’t naturally like others. 

We look to others in that group to learn what’s considered acceptable and then we adjust accordingly. We may even look disapprovingly at the parts of us that don’t quite fit in with said group.

Sounds familiar, right?

Don’t worry, there’ll be no judgment of you here. In fact, I come bearing gifts. My gift to you is the news that you’re free to be exactly who you are. Right this moment. With no filters, no muzzles, and no shame, doubt, or fear about being different than everyone else. In fact, I encourage you to embrace every single thing that makes you stand out. 

Why, you ask?

Because we have officially entered new energy known as the Age of Aquarius. So the inner conflict you’ve been feeling about being different is fading and fast! Now, the energy is of higher vibration and there’s more light. And we all know that the higher the concentration of light, the bigger the pull toward truth.

So, are you ready to finally show up as yourself for yourself?

Here’s what you’ll learn in the video:

💥 What it means to be yourself and why it’s so hard sometimes.

💥 Why it’s crucial to be yourself in these new energies.

💥 How to be yourself by using a powerful 4-step process that will help you come into your authentic self quickly.

Once you watch the video, let me know in the comments below:

Do you struggle to be your authentic self?

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With deep love and gratitude;

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    I’m a life coach, healer, spiritual teacher, and former clinician. My life’s work is to help accelerate your spiritual awakening so you can heal your past, overcome any challenge, and live with joy and purpose. If you need to deep dive beyond my weekly video content, I recommend you check out my premium coaching program, Heart Alchemy.

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    • This is so informative Christina, I have been watching some of your talks, and was going to ask how you are so natural in front of the camera! Now I know why, I need to work all four stages in depth. I am 52 and realise how I have given my power away for at least 40 years, I fought against what was ‘normal’ where I grew up in the UK. I am a Domestic Abuse Support Worker and I think I am drained. I have tried for so long to make others happy.
      I recently qualified as an accredited life coach and NLP Practitioner, and my teacher advised me to just be myself when practicing, that’s proving difficult as I am not quite sure who that is 🙁 love and light, Cathy xxx

    • Hi Christina

      Another great video and very enlightening . Trying to conform to other peoples expectations has always been a drain on my energy .
      I never knew what or how to deal with it and would try to avoid certain people that I felt uncomfortable around.
      So thank you for explaining why this happens and I will apply your methods to my life.
      Sending you so much love and appreciation.

      From Iain in Powys Wales.

    • Hi Christina – personal identity is a very strong lesson in my life. Answering the question “who am I?” has been a guiding, echoing, sometimes haunting question for years and years. Gender, mind/thoughts, feelings/emotions – I’ve experienced self doubt that is crippling and quite literally off the charts… meaning I get blindsided by triggers with wounds in deep places. I am going to commit to your steps, and I am actually very excited and hopeful to try and see what results I can achieve.

      Thank you from all of me that I know and all of me who has yet to be seen by me.

      Love and gratitude

    • I am working on clearing out the PTSD from prior sexual, mental, and physical abuse. I have been in therapy several times in my life and in the psych wards. I have a history of suicide attempts which started at age 10. Today, I’m 67 years old! I thought I was healed, but the covid situation is triggering me fiercely! I love your videos and your presentation. I need a mature person like you,even though you are many years younger you have an old soul thing about you. I feel I am in the right place. Thank you for your kindness and intelligence!

    • I struggle with trying to figure out my authentic self. I don’t know how to discern who I am. Is it something I think of in my conscious is it my ego? How do I know which is which?

      • Amanda – Team Christina April 28, 2021 at 9:44 pm

        Hi Peter! Thank you for telling us a bit about your journey. Christina does read each of her messages but is unable to respond with individual guidance here in the comments. We encourage you to take advantage of all the Free Resources Christina offers! However, the best way to work with her directly is through her annual Heart Alchemy course!

    • Thank you, Christina – this video was brilliant. I had a really strong and surprising emotional response to the part on self-acceptance. Clearly a sign for work to be done. You beautifully explain what I think is one of the most important messages for our awakening. I have so much gratitude and love for you x

    • Thank you so much Christina and team 💞

    • “I don’t owe anything to anyone.”

      Thank you for this, came at the right time for me. I was able to step away from something deep down I recognised was not a good fit, while it seemed that way logically.

      It felt freeing to be true to myself.

      Much love,

    • Christina, you’re a star! All this material is keeping me going, thank you!

      An issue of validation has come up for me, might be peculiar to me but I will work on inner child & confidence modules before chakras. Thanks a million. Annaxxxx

    • Suzette Starbuck April 29, 2021 at 4:23 pm


      I’ve been watching your videos for some time now. This particular one is EPIC for me! Thank you for your generosity!! I really appreciate the workbook to download!

      One question- I don’t see the Inner Child video that you spoke of.

      Much Joy,

    • I discovered Christines videos in 2020. They have been a life line to me in a fast tracked awakening. Each time a new video drops in my inbox, it arrives on EXACTLY the day I need it and is always EXACTLY what I needed to work on that day or week. I feel like the content has been created to respond to my journey personally. It really is unbelievable how in synch it is to my needs. I work through each video so thoroughly and have amazing results. …. Does Christine train people to become coaches? For future reference? So much gratitude 🙏

      • Amanda – Team Christina May 5, 2021 at 9:37 pm

        Hi Emma-Jane! You are too sweet! We love to hear this! Currently, our Heart Alchemy course is the most comprehensive of our coaching programs. You can check it out here!

    • OMG! Thank you Christina. This is spot-on what I’ve been needing. Loved this video. Thank you so much! Love right back to you!


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