Why We Become Controlling And How We Can Learn To Trust Life

Why We Become Controlling And How We Can Learn To Trust Life

Why We Become Controlling And How We Can Learn To Trust Life 1920 1080 Christina Lopes

Do you have a controlling personality? Is it hard for you to trust life and go with the flow?

If so, this is the video for you.

I show the one key reason why we become controlling in the first place and share 2 practical tools/exercises to help you let go of control and start trusting life today.

Here’s the audio version:

This video is part of a broader post called: “Learning How To Receive: 12 Practical Tools To Help You Open Up.”


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I’m a life coach, healer, spiritual teacher, and former clinician. My life’s work is to help you open your incredible heart, heal your past, and live with joy and purpose. Aside from my weekly video content, I also work 1-on-1 with people who need private individual guidance. If this is you, the fastest way to get help is to book a single session with me.


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  • Hi Christina, I just started listening to your YouTube channel recently, I would say end of September this year. I was surprised by your confidence in self-discovery, it resonates with my inner-self too.

    Recently, I applied the exercise to identify the moment where I decided to become controlling. I would love to share with you that moment, hopefully I can one day. It ultimately changed my perception, I’m free of the pain.

    I am subscribed to your newsletter, not to miss another episode. I’m writing this comment to the first post that I started out with my journey, it helps to collect how much progress we made. Thank you!

    • I’m so happy to hear this Patrick! May you continue on your journey with joy and peace. 🙂

      • It’s 9 months later and I still remind myself of the breakthrough. Thank you for using the internet, I wouldn’t have found the answer when I really needed.

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