Top 10 Most Asked Questions On Twin Flame Love (Part 1)

Top 10 Most Asked Questions On Twin Flame Love (Part 1)

Top 10 Most Asked Questions On Twin Flame Love (Part 1) 1920 1080 Christina Lopes

There are few desires in life quite as powerful and profound as the quest to find “the one”.

Companionship, connection, and deep soul-level love are all characteristics that are intricately woven in our hearts.

Our hearts are always “pinging” out a signal to The Beloved, whomever or whatever that may be.

To me, everyone has this “ping” or Heart Compass, the only difference is that some of us outwardly materialize it in a romantic partner, while others (like monks or nuns) direct it toward God or their inner selves.

I didn’t even know I had a Heart Compass until my first romantic relationship, at the ripe age of 28. Up until then, I joked with my friends about how Christina just wasn’t made for relationships.

“I don’t need a relationship and am perfectly happy without one.”

That affirmation can and should be true (if you’re not happy with yourself, you won’t be anyone else either) but at that moment, it was a lie I was telling myself and others.

The truth was, my heart was longing for deep connection with a partner, but I just didn’t know how to break all the barriers I had created around it.

Intimacy frightened me and I was still operating from deep childhood wounds of loss, sexual trauma, and lack of trust.

How would I ever be able to find love with all the thick walls I had built against it?

For me, love first came into my life the way a sledgehammer meets a wall: quick, forceful, and destructive.

I experienced love like never before the day I met my soulmate. That beautiful bond destroyed the walls around my heart but it wasn’t meant to last.

It did, however, leave in its wake a tender, open heart, that would never close again. I now knew that my soul was on this earth to experience a deep and unconditional partnership with someone.

But first, I had to realize that “the one”, The Beloved, cannot be found “out there”. It’s not really a person per se: The One is ME, in wholeness and in truth.

I had to realize that the only way to bring “the one” to me is to first become that whole in myself.

And I learned all this when I met my twin flame.

We all know what soulmates are, but few of us understand what a twin flame connection is. But there are so many souls right now whose Heart Compass is bringing them their twin flame, even if they don’t realize it.

The twin flame love path is much like the movie Wizard of Oz. Dorothy spends all this time looking for Home when in fact, “home” was with her all along:

“If I ever go looking for my heart’s desire again, I won’t look any further than my own backyard.”

That’s what a twin flame does in your life.

They guide you home to yourself. They help you understand that a deep, loving, and intimate partnership with another soul can only be achieved when you experience that partnership within yourself.

Twin flame love is unlike any other relationship you’ve ever had.

It’s intense and can have some very challenging phases. So if you’ve met your twin, this video is going to help you make sense of it all and learn how to master this path of sacred connection.

The topic of twin flames first exploded in my inbox after I shot a 3-part series on twin flame love back in 2015. If you haven’t seen those original videos, here they are:

Part I: “What Are They?”

Part II: “How To Live This Beautiful Connection”

Part III: “Attachment, Separation, & Union”

Since then, I’ve received hundreds of emails from clients and viewers about those original videos. And I put together the top 10 questions I get asked most about the twin flame connection.

This was originally going to be just one video but it was super long so I made it a 2-part series.

In this first video, I’ll be answering these 4 questions:

Question 1: What the heck are twin flames?

Question 2: Why is this connection so intense?

Question 3: Why is this connection so hard?

Question 4: What are the stages of twin flame union?

In my next video (part 2 of this series), I’ll be answering questions 5-10:

Question 5: What’s the purpose of twin flame union?

Question 6: Is this my twin?

Question 7: Are twin flames destined to be together?

Question 8: Can I help my twin flame heal?

Question 9: Tips for keeping the Union strong?

Question 10: What twin flame resources for you recommend?


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With deep love and gratitude;

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I’m a life coach, healer, spiritual teacher, and former clinician. My life’s work is to help you open your incredible heart, heal your past, and live with joy and purpose. Aside from my weekly video content, I also work 1-on-1 with people who need private individual guidance. If this is you, the fastest way to get help is to book a single session with me.


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  • Hi Christina!

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom from your twin flame journey. It helps me heal, even though I’m not sure my counterpart and myself are actually twin flames. So mutch is ressonating, but I am afraid of deceiving myself, and holding on to a connection that will never come to be.
    I’ve come to the conclution that the label doesn’t really matter. I recogniced him the moment I saw him, and felt we had been together before. I knew when we said our last goodbyes, that I would see him again in the next lifetime if not sooner. I know we were supposed to meet, I know we were supposed to love each other, and I know this is for our mutual benefit in accelerating in our spiritual journeys.

    With him I experienced a rollercoaster of emotions. The deepest intimacy on all levels I’ve ever known. I felt compelled to open my heart to him, even though I didn’t really want to. I felt compelled to shower him with love and to heal him. Even though I’ve never been a healer or have abilities of any kind that I know of, besides intuition. He on the other hand have warm hands, and healing abilities. But he doesn’t belive in his gifts, and isn’t interested in using them really. He actively shuts down parts of his abilities, and was really hesitant to even talk about it. He gave me lots of healing though.
    In trying to love each other and heal each other, it seemed all hell broke loose. We both got really ill time and time again, and he ended up in a major back surgury. Intuitively, I felt all these illneses were due to overwhelming energies and misalignment. We both really wanted to find true love in each other. But I dont’t think we were ever really open and receptive of this love at the same time. I believe we have mutch of the same imbalances in our chakrasystem. Certainly, we both have sacral chakra issues.
    He mirrored my deepest wounds I didn’t even know existed. To me, it was traumatic watching him walk away, and straight to the next woman waiting. In meditation I found a similar feeling trauma occured when I was a toddler. I saw my mom was unable to meet my needs when my little brother was born just 14 months after me. And she hasn’t ever been able to, still to this day. Still working on healing my mother wound.

    My counterpart and I have had telepathic communication and meshing energies. He’s had trouble letting me go, even though he is with another woman. In cordcutting meditations I’ve seen him holding on the cords, unwilling to cut his end. We have had several phonecalls lasting for up to 7 hours trying to figure this out. I sometimes wonder if he just craves my uncondotional love, without really feeling love for me. But then I’ve gotten messages that he loves me, and always will.
    Questioning my sanity regularly..
    The cordcutting meditations don’t seem to work. If anything, his energy gets even closer.
    What seems to help heal these heavy energies, is praying for him and his girlfriend and myself. That we all get strength, clarity, love, and wholeness within ourselves. And lately I have actually felt a shift.
    I’m not so conserned about us ending up together or not. Feeling more in my own power. And I haven’t felt his energy like I used to. Witch leads me to question that he is a twin flame.. But I do believe we are all co creators, and that I propably could manifest a relationship with him at some point if I wanted to.
    Now, I hope to find a romantic and spiritual partner I can be more at ease with. And hope to be able to build a family at some point.

    Thank you for holding space for my sharing. Nobody around me can even begin to understand this dynamic and connection and the impact it’s had on my lifes journey. Just typing it down brings healing.

    Hope you and your twin are doing well, and that you both are strong and loved❤️

    Mutch love from NorthernNorway,
    Line Marie

    • Thank you so much Line and I hope your journey is filled with joy and peace. And welcome to this community of open-hearted souls. <3

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    Happy to join here. I met my twin flame and I realised it a week ago after most desperate and deepest separation. I always know that I’m spiritual and have karma cos of my family but I didn’t expect that love is coming through inside me. I’m so glad to understood love is exist. It’s been a week that I realised he’s my twin flame but we separate now cos of my 3d desires. I’ve just done meditation and saw that it is not gonna be easy. But still I’m so glad that my mission is sharing my love with people.
    It’s a beautiful feeling to see the signs the universe sending to me.

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  • I am currently in separation with my “twin flame”. Prior to it we were having arguments. We had a discussion about me moving back home with my family (we moved from California to Alabama for his work). I repelled moving back because we had already been there for 6 months. I was starting to get established with work but the pandemic held me back financially so it caused him to pay for everything when we agreed I would be helping but no work means no money. I was doing so well at my job and i suddenly felt that i needed to move out. When I told him and agreed that i would, everything shifted. He was treating me exactly how i felt loved and our relationship with each other grew closer. We started to communicate in harmony and share all the dirty details about our past and why it triggered us. I had all my stuff packed and all my car booked to ship back home. He didnt ask me to stay so i continued to move forward with my decision. He is the “runner” because he doesn’t know whether we should keep a label of us being in a relationship but still has been treating me as if we have one. I am hurting because I want to release this pain of attachment and i don’t know how to do it. It has been something I’ve been trying to do for the whole time i was in alabama for 6 months. Now I am back home and we still regularly message each other. He is visiting until july 5 and we are going to see each other on the 30th of june. I don’t want to keep pushing him away by reaching out but he is still communicating with me. I dont know how it will be like when he goes back to Alabama for 10 more months. I know i will constantly be working on me and focusing on me. I still want to stay connected because I don’t want to lose touch with him. We definitely mirrored each other and i think it caused him to have a spiritual awakening because he feels lost now and doesn’t know who he is all of a sudden. I know he is working in a job he doesnt love and no longer does his passion which is photography when we were back in California. We have been together for almost 3 years starting September. Been living together for almost 2 years with a roommate. But when we moved to Alabama, it was just us. My question is, since we are in the separation phase, we are still communicating regularly as if we are still together, but he doesn’t want to put the label on us, should i still continue to contact him? I don’t want to push him away more. We have been working through our triggers and understand that we have to heal ourselves and make ourselves happy. But we share and he said he previously felt like he had no soul until he met me. We both feel as though we trigger each other to grow and i felt so much growth that he sees during the times we have been connected. Does that mean our spiritual growth will slow down during the separation phase?


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